Update, this Friday I'm going in to have a Port put into my chest to hookup the chemo to. Doc says that the chemo will not kill the cancer, too late for that. The best the 30% chance will do if it works at all is to control the tumor by shrinking it and that means chemo forever.
That's the situation my buddy Dave has, Mike. Chemo for life. He's been doing it for about ten years now and leads a mostly normal life. That's as good as you can hope for, I suppose. Keep on fighting!